{"id":307,"date":"2012-10-04T10:00:54","date_gmt":"2012-10-04T09:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.1cartepesaptamana.ro\/de-ce-avem-nevoie-de-un-borcan-cu-dorinte\/"},"modified":"2016-04-05T21:26:34","modified_gmt":"2016-04-05T20:26:34","slug":"de-ce-avem-nevoie-de-un-borcan-cu-dorinte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/de-ce-avem-nevoie-de-un-borcan-cu-dorinte\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce avem nevoie de un borcan cu dorin\u021be"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acest articol este scris de Raluca Ciceu, freelancer \u0219i autoare al blogului de poezii\u00a0Zburalda<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Po\u021bi avea tot ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti, dac\u0103 \u021bi-o dore\u0219ti suficient de mult. Trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi dore\u0219ti acel lucru cu o exuberan\u021b\u0103 interioar\u0103 care erupe prin piele \u0219i se combin\u0103 cu energia care a creat lumea.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u2013 Sheilah Graham Westbrook<\/p>\n

\"wish<\/p>\n

Nu exist\u0103 persoan\u0103 \u00een aceast\u0103 lume care s\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0219i fi pus cel pu\u021bin o dorin\u021b\u0103. Fie c\u0103 am suflat \u00een lum\u00e2n\u0103rile de pe tort, fie c\u0103 am v\u0103zut o stea c\u0103z\u0103toare, cu to\u021bii am profitat de dorin\u021be.<\/p>\n

Vede\u021bi? Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 invent\u0103m evenimente doar pentru a beneficia de \u00eendeplinirea dorin\u021belor noastre.<\/p>\n

Poate c\u0103 dac\u0103 am avea dreptul la o singur\u0103 dorin\u021b\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103 am \u021bine mai mult de ea \u0219i nu am l\u0103sa-o s\u0103 evadeze a\u0219a u\u0219or. De aceea e bine ca toate dorin\u021bele noastre s\u0103 fie scrise, s\u0103 nu uit\u0103m de ele \u0219i s\u0103 reflect\u0103m mai des asupra lor.<\/p>\n

Eu am apelat la dib\u0103cia propriilor m\u00e2ini \u0219i mi-am construit un wish jar <\/em>dintr-un borcan vechi \u0219i pu\u021bin\u0103 l\u00e2ni\u021b\u0103 \u00eempletit\u0103. A trecut un an de zile de atunci \u0219i azi l-am deschis pentru a vedea ce s-a \u00eemplinit.<\/p>\n

Dorin\u021bele mele, \u00eengr\u0103m\u0103dite \u00eentre pere\u021bii de sticl\u0103, sunt permanent pe birou \u00een fa\u021ba mea \u0219i r\u00e2vnind a\u0219a de mult la materializarea lor parc\u0103 le este jen\u0103 s\u0103 nu se \u00eemplineasc\u0103. Acum, c\u0103 le revizuiesc, constat c\u0103 multe dintre ele s-au materializat, iar pentru restul mai am r\u0103bdare.<\/p>\n

Bine\u00een\u021beles, nu m\u0103 a\u0219tept s\u0103 scriu pe o foaie ce-mi doresc, iar apoi doar stau \u0219i a\u0219tept s\u0103 se \u00eendeplineasc\u0103. Dorin\u021ba este doar motorul ac\u021biunii, deci am \u0219i eu partea mea de munc\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u00cemi place s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 sunt puse \u00een wish jar<\/em>, unele mai ambi\u021bioase, altele mai firave, dar sunt ale mele. \u00cemi place s\u0103 le v\u0103d, dar mai ales s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 se vor \u00eendeplini\u2026 la timpul lor.<\/p>\n

Eu v\u0103d un wish\u00a0 jar <\/em>ca un c\u00e2\u0219tig personal care m\u0103 ajut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi disciplinez dorin\u021bele. Cu ajutorul acestui borc\u0103nel mi-am format un obicei de a con\u0219tientiza importan\u021ba acelui ceva ce \u00eemi lipse\u0219te.<\/p>\n

Paulo Coelho spunea: C\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti ceva cu adev\u0103rat, tot universul conspir\u0103 pentru \u00eendeplinirea visului t\u0103u. <\/em>Eu mi-am adunat dorin\u021bele \u00eentr-un singur loc pentru a da o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor universului s\u0103 le g\u0103seasc\u0103 mai u\u0219or \u0219i mai repede. \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Scopul unui wish jar <\/em>nu este de a ne contabiliza dorin\u021bele, ci pur \u0219i simplu de a observa c\u0103 dorim mai mult de la noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/p>\n

Cred c\u0103 aspira\u021biile noastre ne definesc ca oameni \u0219i c\u00e2nd \u00eemi v\u0103d wish jar<\/em>-ul \u00eencep s\u0103 m\u0103 simt un om mare \u0219i \u00eemi pot modela ac\u021biunile \u00een func\u021bie de ceea ce \u00eemi doresc. Astfel, wish jar<\/em>-ul este doar o modalitate simpl\u0103 de definire a obiectivelor personale.<\/p>\n

Eu \u00eemi imaginez wish jar-<\/em>ul ca pe un prieten ce \u00eemi ofer\u0103 o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor, care face diferen\u021ba \u00eentre diferitele variante de viitor.<\/p>\n

\u0162in\u00e2nd cont de spusele lui Baruch Spinoza: Dorin\u021ba este \u00eens\u0103\u0219i esen\u021ba omului <\/em>am pus \u00een practic\u0103 aceast\u0103 simpl\u0103 metod\u0103 a wish jar<\/em>-ului \u0219i m-am convins c\u0103 pot \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 \u00eemi pun dorin\u021be. Cu c\u00e2t mai multe, cu at\u00e2t mai bine. V\u0103 \u00eendemn \u0219i pe voi s\u0103 face\u021bi la fel.<\/p>\n

Despre \u00a0Raluca Ciceu<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Am 24 de ani, sunt din Cluj, am absolvit dreptul. Sunt redactor \u0219i freelancer pentru Petzoom.<\/p>\n

Te invit pe blogul meu de poezii numit\u00a0Zburalda<\/a>,\u00a0<\/em>pe care scriu cu pasiune.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Acest articol este scris de Raluca Ciceu, freelancer \u0219i autoare al blogului de poezii\u00a0Zburalda. Po\u021bi avea tot ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti, dac\u0103 \u021bi-o dore\u0219ti suficient de mult. Trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi dore\u0219ti acel lucru cu o exuberan\u021b\u0103 interioar\u0103 care erupe prin piele \u0219i se combin\u0103 cu energia care a creat lumea. \u2013 Sheilah Graham Westbrook Nu exist\u0103 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1021,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nDe ce avem nevoie de un borcan cu dorin\u021be - 1 Carte pe Saptamana<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/de-ce-avem-nevoie-de-un-borcan-cu-dorinte\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"De ce avem nevoie de un borcan cu dorin\u021be - 1 Carte pe Saptamana\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/de-ce-avem-nevoie-de-un-borcan-cu-dorinte\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"1 Carte pe Saptamana\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2012-10-04T09:00:54+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2016-04-05T20:26:34+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/cititul-te-face-sexy.jpg?fit=700%2C350&ssl=1\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"700\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"350\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"gabriel\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"gabriel\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Estimated reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/de-ce-avem-nevoie-de-un-borcan-cu-dorinte\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/de-ce-avem-nevoie-de-un-borcan-cu-dorinte\/\",\"name\":\"De ce avem nevoie de un borcan cu dorin\u021be - 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