{"id":281,"date":"2012-08-15T15:25:29","date_gmt":"2012-08-15T14:25:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.1cartepesaptamana.ro\/scurt-dictionar-de-gesturi-si-microexpresii\/"},"modified":"2012-08-15T15:25:29","modified_gmt":"2012-08-15T14:25:29","slug":"scurt-dictionar-de-gesturi-si-microexpresii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/scurt-dictionar-de-gesturi-si-microexpresii\/","title":{"rendered":"Scurt dic\u021bionar de gesturi \u0219i microexpresii"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acest articol este scris de Felicia Per\u0219unaru care este profesoar\u0103 \u0219i mare amatoare de c\u0103r\u021bi.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"microexpresii\"<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 buzele lui tac, atunci vorbe\u0219te cu degetele – Sigmung Freud.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Ca \u00eentr-o partid\u0103 de poker, rela\u021biile cu ceilal\u021bi presupun dou\u0103 preocup\u0103ri: s\u0103-\u021bi ascunzi g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i s\u0103 le afli pe ale celorlal\u021bi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Autocenzura nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 la cote maxime c\u00e2nd \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ascundem ce g\u00e2ndim, g\u00e2ndul rebel strecur\u00e2ndu-se pe fa\u021ba noastr\u0103 ca un ironic: “Ce g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u00een frunte \u021bi-e pus!”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Indicatorii comportamentali din via\u021ba de zi cu zi au un con\u021binut ridicat de informa\u021bie pentru a descifra g\u00e2ndurile celorlal\u021bi. Astfel, felul \u00een care cineva \u00ee\u0219i mi\u0219c\u0103 picioarele, m\u00e2inile sau ochii spune multe despre dispozi\u021bia \u0219i inten\u021biile sale, ar\u0103t\u00e2nd dac\u0103 se simte dominant sau supus, preocupat sau plictisit.<\/p>\n

Modul \u00een care z\u00e2mbe\u0219te poate ar\u0103ta dac\u0103 este \u00eentr-adev\u0103r fericit sau se preface, dac\u0103 spune adev\u0103rul sau este anxios.<\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103-i cite\u0219ti pe ceilal\u021bi dintr-un simplu gest, po\u021bi fi atent la:<\/p>\n

1. Z\u00e2mbet<\/strong> – un z\u00e2mbet autentic aduce cu sine formarea ridului numit laba g\u00e2\u0219tii \u00een exteriorul ochilor. \u00cen bro\u0219urile corpora\u021biilor \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti z\u00e2mbetul sigilat<\/em>, favoritul oamenilor de afaceri: buzele r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00eempreun\u0103 \u00een timp ce col\u021burile gurii se distan\u021beaz\u0103, iar rezultatul este o linie lung\u0103 care traverseaz\u0103 fa\u021ba \u0219i o puternic\u0103 senza\u021bie c\u0103 nimeni nu poate \u0219ti ce se petrece \u00een mintea persoanei respective.<\/p>\n

2. Gestul de \u03b1-\u0219i \u0219terge ochii<\/strong> \u2013 <\/em>o aparent\u0103 tentativ\u0103 de a \u00eendep\u0103rta o impuritate din ochi poate fi un semn c\u0103 persoana este trist\u0103.<\/p>\n

3. Privitul peste ochelari<\/strong> – este un gest de \u00eenfruntare, specific unei persoane care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 te domine.<\/p>\n

4. C\u0103scat –<\/strong> \u00a0oamenii casc atunci c\u00e2nd sunt plictisi\u021bi, c\u00e2nd trec de la o activitate la alta (c\u0103scatul tranzitoriu), dar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd sunt stresa\u021bi (s-a observat chiar \u0219i la sportivii olimpici).<\/p>\n

5. M\u00e2ng\u00e2iatul p\u0103rului<\/strong> – C\u00e2nd oamenii se simt nesiguri, deseori \u00ee\u0219i m\u00e2ng\u00e2ie p\u0103rul. Aceste ac\u021biuni vin din copil\u0103rie c\u00e2nd mamele \u00eei m\u00e2ng\u00e2iau pe p\u0103r ca s\u0103 \u00eei lini\u0219teasc\u0103.<\/p>\n

6. Datul din cap<\/strong> – dac\u0103 e\u0219ti \u00eentr-o conversa\u021bie \u0219i interlocutorul d\u0103 \u00eencet din cap, \u00ee\u021bi po\u021bi continua lini\u0219tit ideile: este un semn c\u0103 nu dore\u0219te s\u0103 te \u00eentrerup\u0103. \u00cen schimb, c\u00e2nd acest gest este f\u0103cut rapid, ascult\u0103torul arat\u0103 c\u0103 \u00een\u021belege ce spui, te sus\u021bine, dar ar vrea s\u0103 adauge \u0219i el ceva.<\/p>\n

7. Str\u00e2ngerea m\u00e2inii<\/strong> \u2013 o persoan\u0103 care \u00ee\u021bi strange m\u00e2na cu putere este dornic\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi arat\u0103 c\u0103 este una \u00eencrez\u0103toare \u0219i dominant\u0103. \u00a0\u00cen schimb, o persoan\u0103 care ofer\u0103 \u201co m\u00e2n\u0103 moart\u0103\u201d este una introvertit\u0103, care nu este interesat\u0103 de interac\u021biune.<\/p>\n

\u00cen cazul sexului slab, \u201cm\u00e2na moart\u0103\u201d vrea s\u0103 lase impresia de feminitate languroas\u0103. Fere\u0219te-te de persoanele care \u00ee\u021bi re\u021bin m\u00e2na dup\u0103 ce o str\u00e2ng, ag\u0103\u021b\u00e2ndu-se de ea ca o lipitoare –\u00a0 tr\u0103deaz\u0103 dorin\u021ba de acaparare.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 afli mai multe despre gesturi, cite\u0219te cartea lui Peter Collett – Cartea Gesturilor<\/strong><\/a>.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

C\u00e2nd ai emo\u021bii, te dai de gol prin faptul c\u0103:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  • tu\u0219e\u0219ti din senin<\/strong> – c\u00e2nd oamenii devin anxio\u0219i, simt deseori un fel de m\u00e2nc\u0103rime \u00een g\u00e2t care \u00eei face s\u0103 tu\u0219easc\u0103.<\/li>\n
  • clipe\u0219ti des<\/strong> \u2013 clipitul este un indicator ocular al anxiet\u0103\u021bii.<\/li>\n
  • \u00eenghi\u021bi cu greutate<\/strong> – dup\u0103 ce pre\u0219edintele Clinton a rostit acea propozi\u021bie faimoas\u0103 \u201eNu am avut rela\u021bii sexuale cu femeia aceea, domni\u0219oara Lewinsky<\/em>“, a privit \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt \u0219i apoi a \u00eenghi\u021bit cu greutate.<\/li>\n
  • \u00ee\u021bi mu\u0219ti unghiile sau buzele<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • fumezi sau mesteci gum\u0103 <\/strong>– confortul oferit de guma de\u00a0 mestecat este evident din cantitatea de gum\u0103 pe care o mestec\u0103 antrenorii \u0219i managerii unei echipe \u00een timp ce urm\u0103resc un meci.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Uneori, indicatorii comportamentali se desf\u0103\u0219oar\u0103 cu o vitez\u0103 uluitoare, ca \u0219i cum cineva ar trage \u00a0perdelele deoparte pentru a le permite trec\u0103torilor s\u0103 arunce o privire \u00een interior dup\u0103 care le trage imediat la loc.<\/p>\n

    Aceast\u0103 ac\u021biune se desf\u0103\u0219oara at\u00e2t de rapid \u00eenc\u00e2t oamenii nici nu au timp s\u0103 realizeze ce se afl\u0103 dincolo de perdele.<\/p>\n

    Astfel, unii exper\u021bi \u00a0consider\u0103 c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 un mincinos perfect: indiferent de capacitatea lor de \u00a0a min\u021bi, \u00a0oamenii las\u0103\u00a0\u00eentotdeauna urme care indic\u0103 inducerea \u00een eroare.<\/p>\n

    Freud credea c\u0103 oamenii nu-\u0219i pot\u00a0 ascunde prea mult timp st\u0103rile interioare de alte persoane:<\/p>\n

    \u201eOricine are ochi s\u0103 vad\u0103 \u0219i urechi s\u0103 aud\u0103 se poate convinge singur c\u0103 nici un muritor nu poate p\u0103stra un secret. Dac\u0103 buzele lui tac, vorbe\u0219te cu degetele; mesajele tr\u0103d\u0103toare ies prin to\u021bi porii lui.\u201d \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

    Despre Felicia Per\u0219unaru<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Felicia Per\u0219unaru \u2013 profesor, \u00eemi place s\u0103 investesc \u00een mine \u0219i \u00een oameni. Profesez din pasiune, scriu din dorin\u021ba de a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba mai multe despre mine \u0219i citesc de dou\u0103 ori mai mult dec\u00e2t vorbesc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Acest articol este scris de Felicia Per\u0219unaru care este profesoar\u0103 \u0219i mare amatoare de c\u0103r\u021bi. Dac\u0103 buzele lui tac, atunci vorbe\u0219te cu degetele – Sigmung Freud. Ca \u00eentr-o partid\u0103 de poker, rela\u021biile cu ceilal\u021bi presupun dou\u0103 preocup\u0103ri: s\u0103-\u021bi ascunzi g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i s\u0103 le afli pe ale celorlal\u021bi. Autocenzura nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 la cote maxime c\u00e2nd \u00eencerc\u0103m […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1021,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nScurt dic\u021bionar de gesturi \u0219i microexpresii - 1 Carte pe Saptamana<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/scurt-dictionar-de-gesturi-si-microexpresii\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Scurt dic\u021bionar de gesturi \u0219i microexpresii - 1 Carte pe Saptamana\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/scurt-dictionar-de-gesturi-si-microexpresii\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"1 Carte pe Saptamana\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2012-08-15T14:25:29+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/cititul-te-face-sexy.jpg?fit=700%2C350&ssl=1\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"700\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"350\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"gabriel\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"gabriel\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Estimated reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"4 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/scurt-dictionar-de-gesturi-si-microexpresii\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/scurt-dictionar-de-gesturi-si-microexpresii\/\",\"name\":\"Scurt dic\u021bionar de gesturi \u0219i microexpresii - 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