{"id":219,"date":"2012-05-02T14:00:54","date_gmt":"2012-05-02T13:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.1cartepesaptamana.ro\/cum-sa-i-faci-pe-altii-sa-te-placa\/"},"modified":"2017-07-28T18:08:30","modified_gmt":"2017-07-28T15:08:30","slug":"cum-sa-i-faci-pe-altii-sa-te-placa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1cartepesaptamana.ro\/cum-sa-i-faci-pe-altii-sa-te-placa\/","title":{"rendered":"5 idei simple prin care poti sa ii faci pe cei de langa tine sa te placa mai mult"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Trebuie s\u0103 recunosc, \u00eemi place s\u0103 fiu pl\u0103cut.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Nu sunt eu cel mai simpatic om de pe P\u0103m\u00e2nt, \u00eens\u0103 m\u0103 str\u0103duiesc s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg bine cu oamenii cu care \u00eempart acelea\u0219i interese \u0219i cu care simt c\u0103 am ceva mai multe \u00een comun dec\u00e2t simple hobby-uri.<\/p>\n

Totu\u0219i, ca s\u0103 devii o persoan\u0103 agreabil\u0103 nu este a\u0219a de u\u0219or.\u00a0Trebuie s\u0103 ai o \u201cstrategie\u201d.<\/p>\n

Nu to\u021bi suntem naturali c\u00e2nd vine vorba de rela\u021biile cu ceilal\u021bi din jur. Nu to\u021bi suntem foarte confortabili cu ideea c\u0103 vom cunoa\u0219te persoane noi \u0219i \u0219tim c\u0103 ne este util s\u0103 ne apropiem de ele.<\/p>\n

De aceea, am extras din cartea lui Dale Carnegie \u2013 Cum s\u0103 v\u0103 face\u021bi prieteni \u0219i s\u0103 deveni\u021bi influent <\/a>(clic pentru detalii despre carte),\u00a05 idei simple prin care po\u021bi s\u0103 faci pe oricine s\u0103 te plac\u0103 mai mult.<\/p>\n

\"placut\"<\/p>\n

Cum sa-i faci pe altii sa te placa mai mult<\/h2>\n

1. Capata un interes sincer in pasiunile celorlati<\/h3>\n

E simplu.<\/p>\n

Cineva o s\u0103 te accepte mai u\u0219or ca prieten, dac\u0103 te interesezi sincer de pasiunile lui.<\/p>\n

\u015etiu, poate p\u0103rea pu\u021bin for\u021bat, dar nu e chiar a\u0219a. Tot ce trebuie este s\u0103 devii curios \u0219i s\u0103 fii dispus s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi lucruri noi.<\/p>\n

Deci nu este deloc fals acest interes. Te intereseaz\u0103 sincer s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi lucruri noi, te intereseaz\u0103 sincer s\u0103 faci lucruri care s\u0103 te apropie de o persoan\u0103.<\/p>\n

Aceast\u0103 metod\u0103 cap\u0103t\u0103 sens \u00een func\u021bie de sinceritatea cu care o tratezi. Dac\u0103 vezi \u00een oameni doar persoane de la care vrei s\u0103 ob\u021bii chestii, la un moment dat te vei arde cu aceast\u0103 abordare.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 vezi \u00een oameni oportunit\u0103\u021bi de rela\u021bie \u0219i \u00eenv\u0103\u021bare, atunci ei te vor accepta ca prieten, pentru c\u0103 una dintre cele mai mari pl\u0103ceri este s\u0103 \u00eel \u00eenve\u021bi pe altul ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi place \u021bie.<\/p>\n

2. Zambeste sincer<\/h3>\n

Sunt 2 feluri de z\u00e2mbete: z\u00e2mbetul social \u0219i z\u00e2mbetul sincer.<\/p>\n

Cel social<\/a> este foarte u\u0219or de recunoscut. \u00cel sim\u021bi ca fiind fals \u0219i \u00eel observi cu ajutorul microexpresiilor, pentru c\u0103 nu se formeaz\u0103 mici riduri \u00een lateralul ochilor.<\/p>\n

Nefiind interesat \u00een mod natural de o persoan\u0103, e normal ca s\u0103 afi\u0219ezi un z\u00e2mbet fals, pentru c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 o conexiune real\u0103, bazat\u0103 pe curiozitate \u0219i joac\u0103.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti curios e\u0219ti entuziasmat, c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti entuziasmat e\u0219\u021bi \u00eentr-o stare de joac\u0103, iar c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti \u00eentr-o stare de joac\u0103, pur \u0219i simplu \u00ee\u021bi vine s\u0103 z\u00e2mbe\u0219ti.<\/p>\n

3. Retine numele persoanei si repeta-l ori de cate ori ai ocazia.<\/h3>\n

Este sfatul meu preferat, \u00eens\u0103 cu care am problemele cele mai mari.<\/p>\n

Eu am o problem\u0103 \u00een re\u021binutul prenumelor. Sunt catastrofal c\u00e2nd vine vorba de nume mici.<\/p>\n

Mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 des s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc cu persoane cu care am mai conversat \u00een trecut \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u0219tiu numele lor \u0219i cred c\u0103 \u0219tii \u0219i tu c\u00e2t de ciudat este s\u0103 \u00eentrebi, scuze, dar am uitat cum te cheam\u0103.<\/p>\n

Oric\u00e2t de sincer ai fi \u0219i de \u00een\u021beleg\u0103toare ar fi persoana respectiv\u0103, tot creeaz\u0103 ni\u0219te fric\u021biune \u00eentre voi 2.<\/p>\n

Am \u00eencercat acest sfat cu mai multe persoane \u0219i simt diferen\u021ba \u00een discurs \u0219i \u00een interac\u021biune.<\/p>\n

Am \u00eencercat \u0219i cu persoane pe care nu le \u0219tiam, de exemplu persoane care v\u00e2nd la Fast Food \u0219i au ecuson cu nume.<\/p>\n

Le salut \u0219i le includ \u0219i numele \u0219i \u00een majoritatea cazurilor generez z\u00e2mbete \u0219i parc\u0103 \u0219i discursul devine instantaneu mai amabil.<\/p>\n

Da, poate pentru tine poate p\u0103rea ceva mai inconfortabil, cel pu\u021bin la \u00eenceput, dar sunt de aceea\u0219i p\u0103rere cu Dale Carnegie care a zis c\u0103 sunetul produs de spunerea\u00a0numelui propriu reprezint\u0103 cea mai frumoas\u0103 muzic\u0103 din lume<\/em>.<\/p>\n

4. Asculta activ povestea celui de langa tine.<\/h3>\n

Ca s\u0103 fii un bun ascult\u0103tor nu trebuie doar s\u0103 ascul\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Trebuie s\u0103 fii activ implicat \u00een procesul de ascultare. Ceea ce \u021bi se poveste\u0219te trebuie s\u0103 devin\u0103 pentru tine o \u00eentreag\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 auditiv\u0103. Trebuie s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti c\u0103 tu de fapt asi\u0219ti la un spectacol \u0219i vrei s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u00e2t mai multe despre actori, despre poveste, despre deznod\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n

Pune \u00eentreb\u0103ri curioase \u0219i vei respecta intuitiv \u0219i prima metod\u0103 din acest articol.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd ascul\u021bi ca \u0219i cum \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103, vei vedea c\u0103 unele persoane te vor considera ca fiind cel mai interesant om cu care au discutat vreodat\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 tu ai vorbit 20% din timp.<\/p>\n

5. Vorbeste despre ce le pasa lor.<\/h3>\n

Sper c\u0103 te-am l\u0103murit c\u0103 oamenilor le place foarte mult s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre ce le pas\u0103 lor.<\/p>\n

Mi se pare \u0219i normal, \u00een contextul al\u021bii vorbesc f\u0103r\u0103 voia noastr\u0103 \u0219i aproape obsesiv despre orice, chiar dac\u0103 nu este interesant.<\/p>\n

Vrem s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim aprecia\u021bi, iar ceea ce facem noi zi de zi, pasiuni, hobby-uri, munc\u0103, merit\u0103 apreciat \u0219i povestit.<\/p>\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 peste jum\u0103tate din zi le petrecem \u00eentr-un fel care conteaz\u0103 pentru noi, iar dac\u0103 exist\u0103 cineva care s\u0103 ne asculte pove\u0219tile, vom adormi lini\u0219ti\u021bi de fiecare dat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Atunci c\u00e2nd vorbim despre ce le place altora, \u00eei facem s\u0103 se simt\u0103 importan\u021bi. \u015ei sunt importan\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 pasiunile lor conteaz\u0103 \u0219i pentru noi.<\/p>\n

Ganduri de final<\/h3>\n

Nu este nici greu, dar nici u\u0219or s\u0103 faci o persoan\u0103 s\u0103 te plac\u0103 mai mult.\u00a0Totu\u0219i merit\u0103, mai ales dac\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 persoana respectiv\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi poate face via\u021ba mai pl\u0103cut\u0103 \u0219i mai deosebit\u0103.<\/p>\n

Poate c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi este fric\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerci pa\u0219ii de mai sus. Nu-i nicio problem\u0103, \u0219tiu cum e. \u00cencepe \u00eens\u0103 cu pa\u0219i de bebelu\u0219.<\/p>\n

Aplic\u0103 metodele de mai sus pe prietenii care \u00eei ai deja sau pe familia ta.\u00a0Dup\u0103 aceea aplic\u0103 metodele pe un coleg de munc\u0103.\u00a0Vezi cum anume se schimb\u0103 calitatea interac\u021biunii.<\/p>\n

Sunt convins c\u0103 te vei descurca minunat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trebuie s\u0103 recunosc, \u00eemi place s\u0103 fiu pl\u0103cut. Nu sunt eu cel mai simpatic om de pe P\u0103m\u00e2nt, \u00eens\u0103 m\u0103 str\u0103duiesc s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg bine cu oamenii cu care \u00eempart acelea\u0219i interese \u0219i cu care simt c\u0103 am ceva mai multe \u00een comun dec\u00e2t simple hobby-uri. 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